Where is tantra taking us? Is there a final destination? The journey itself is a destination of sorts. If we see our purification and opening moving ever forward as a result of our practices on the meditation seat and in the bedchamber with our beloved, then this is it.

Even so, we may wonder, well, where will it all end? What is the fruition of tantra? With only a little practice, we will know that it is a shift in our lovemaking and perspective from external to internal. But it is more than that. Once we have gone within with our lovemaking and merged our polarities, then it all comes pouring back out into our daily life, coloring every word and action. Then we have become the thing itself, and live that in our daily life—outpouring love.

From Yogani’s Tantra: Discovering the Power of Pre-Orgasmic Sex, Nashville, Tennessee, and London, England: AYP Publishing, 2005, p. 89.