Advanced tantra practitioners may have little or no need for going to orgasm, and forego it altogether, even in lovemaking, because the spiritual ecstasy and fulfillment coming up within become so much greater. Sex becomes internally spiritualized and far exceeds genital orgasm in its scope and duration, eventually becoming a permanent feature of daily life. That permanent state of unwavering ecstatic bliss is the goal of both yogic sitting practices and tantric sexual practices. Yet, reproductive sex is never lost, and it is always an option. It becomes a matter of choice rather than necessity. That is a liberation for both men and women.

From Yogani’s Tantra: Discovering the Power of Pre-Orgasmic Sex, Nashville, Tennessee, and London, England: AYP Publishing, 2005, p. 76.