When I searched my Residua website for today’s date, I discovered that it marks not only ten years with my beloved, the greatest love of my life, but twenty years without cigarettes, as well. Two big anniversaries in one! The only thing that marred this discovery was a sudden urge to go for a third anniversary on this date. What the heck, I thought, too many dates are floating in my mind already. Some economy in this area would be more than welcome. One way or another, though, enlightenment cannot be rushed.